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Are there really more bottoms than tops in the world? And just how many bottoms and tops are out there, really?

Statistics, at least, don't seem to bear these assumptions. Grindr added the option to list one's preferred position in their profile for the first time this September. Find gay tops then, 6 percent of daily users have identified themselves as tops and only four percent as bottoms, according to a representative; 28 percent of topps men identify as versatile.

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It's like what Woody Allen once said find gay tops bisexuality: But only 40 percent of Grindr users and 44 percent of Scruff users list any preference at all—many prefer not to broadcast their bedroom preferences in the first place. Others find gay tops may choose not to use the apps' designated profile fields to tip off potential suitors about bedroom needs; many choose to designate their preferences using emojis in their screen names an arrow tosp down, for example.

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They aren't counted in those statistics. These statistics are skewed by a more obvious factor: This is what guys say their preferred position is when they're putting that information out in the gayy.

That means a whole host find gay tops human behavior and social stigma comes into play—guys will fib in find gay tops to get laid, or because of what others might assume about them based on their preferences. And that might be driving the anecdotal perception that the queer world is rife with bottoms. Lots of guys claim to be tops or versatile, but at least some of them are faking it.

In a paper published in the Archives of Sexual Behaviorresearchers Trevor Hart and David Moskowitz surveyed over men recruited via Craigslist's personal ad section to uncover factors that lead one to think of themselves as a top, bottom or versatile.

They found a similar breakdown as Grindr and Scruff—about half of those find gay tops identified as versatile, and a quarter each as tops or bottoms. However, they also followed up fund see find gay tops kinds of behavior guys reported engaging in during sex, and discovered that while those who self-reported as tops or bottoms actually consistently topped and bottomed in bed, only about half woman seeking casual sex Cato versatile guys actually switched things up.

Gind means that when it gets down to getting find gay tops, the versatile guys surveyed weren't nearly as open minded as their claimed preference would lead you to believe; 48 percent of find gay tops versatile men were, in fact, bottoms, while 52 percent filipina girlfriend in dubai tops. So, all things being equal—which these statistics would seem to tips out; gay guys, all told, fall pretty evenly on the divide between top and bottom—why do we love to accuse each other and the rest of the world of being rife with bottoms?

As it turns out, it may be a way for gay men to encourage each other to butch it up. In his cleverly titled Top or Bottom: Andrew Reilly wrote that gay men use the word "bottom" as a way to criticize those with feminine find gay tops so doing, bullying them into conforming women Scarborough wanting to fuck heteronormative gender expectations. And so you find gay tops it—by lending tops a position of privilege in our gay hierarchies by remarking upon their supposed rarity, or by accusing each other of being bottoms, we reinforce the same misogynist and patriarchal tendencies of our straight brethren.

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All too often, we accuse each other of being flnd by way of criticizing perceived feminine traits within other gay men. Sure, we do it as a joke, but one with a find gay tops undertone.

Interestingly enough, bottom shaming may have its provenance in the AIDS crisis, when, during the 80s, bottoms began to hide angels massage. Those attitudes are still prevalent today. And because bottoms are maligned within our community, we may never get a truly accurate picture of just how many there are.

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